Subtle Segue into Sexual Subjects?
So I was going to write a post about a kind of unhappy subject, but in writing about it I kind of realized I need to talk to the person involved to solve it, instead of you guys (no offence )
so instead, you get to answer another, more fun question for me:
I'm an incredibly curious girlthing: how can I introduce the idea of experimenting with bondage to my boyfriend/partner? he's an incredibly considerate, caring, sweet guy, but we're both pretty non-confrontational and shy and nerdy and all that. I'm trying to figure out how to approach it (and how others have approached it) without making him feel like he has to do what I ask, or even that I'll like it. I might, or might not! I just want to try.
I know it's hard to answer this when you don't know all angles of the situation, but it'd be nice to have a few suggestions for when I decide to broach the subject. I'm moving back in with him in a month's time, so it will be a good chunk of time after that happens (and regular sex begins) that I will be talking to him about it.
partially related stories/suggestions welcome. thank you, all.