Is it Just Me, or Does Sex Hurt?
I know it's not supposed to in general, but... sex is easily uncomfortable... isn't it? Without ever getting into the SM scene. I mean, the biggest shock to me when I first had sex was when I imagined what it would be like to have sex forcefully. How horrible being raped would be! How terrible if the person didn't care when you said, "Ouch!" "A little bit higher/slower/wetter. Let's try a slightly different position! Please be gentle to my vagina! Not so hard with the biting/scratching/grasping/sucking!" Am I just overly sensitive?
I usually don't experience a lot of pain, but... clitoral stimulation, tickling, "rough" sex acts, accidental misplaced body weight, positions that don't make it as easy to breathe, even making out... these can hurt! Yeah, the hurt is ignorable most of the time, but am I the only one who thinks sex is always a little bit painful? Just a bit?
Someone told me, "If it hurts, you're not doing it right." =/
I dunno... I just think when you're doing it "right"... sometimes it does!
Edit: My real question to others discussing this is, whether or not you think sex hurts, what hurts for you? How often?