Dear Sir: Masturbation
I realize that masturbation is a normal part of life. However, I had tried for many years, maybe once or twice a year, and just couldn't do it. So I gave up. A few years later however, I began seriously dating a guy and we became sexually active. (whoo!) I've never had problems achieving orgasm with him. In fact, I get double digits every time. (I haven't decided if I'm easy or he's good. I'm going with the latter.) He has been able to manually stimulate me quite well. Since that time, he left for the Air Force and has been stationed thousands of miles away. I've seen him a couple times since then (it was awesome
Throughout all this, he taught me how to masturbate so I could get an orgasm. 8 months to a year apart makes Han a very sexually frustrated girl. Not quite sure how he did it but it worked. After a time it got easier and easier. When I was in school I could do it in a couple minutes flat if I was bored or just needed to get it out real quick. However, I've noticed in recent weeks that it's getting harder and harder for me to do so. It's not like it's "OMG ALL THE TIME". Probably two or three times a week, and less than that since I got home from school.
Have I done something wrong? Did I hurt myself? Do I need to just give it a rest for a little while?
Please help, Sir!