This topic is designed to spin off from the conversation that's going on elsewhere (V or NorthwoodsMan will likely find a link for everyone--I'm lazy) about the idea of "nice guys."
I'm a reformed "nice guy."
(pause for laughter)
No, seriously. In my scrawny, no-self-confidence, hard-core nerd days, I was totally a "nice guy" where that's actually code for "weenie whom no one would date."
The above theory was a great solace to me. Nonetheless...I kinda think it's bunk.
I guess, mostly, I thought that thread was worth perpetuating in its own line.