is trying to get that Wow! feeling, IF that is your goal.

You kind of sound like my wife: clitoral stimulation alone doesn't do it for her, and while she does get orgasms that way, they are nothing to write home about, and she not only has no urge to continue, but quite to the contrary is pretty much "done" for the evening after one of those.

Penetration, or more to the point, the g-spot stimulation to be got that way, changes things. A lot. Wow doesn't even begin to describe things when we get it right, and even if we don't, it still feels better for her than one of those purely clitoral orgasms Dr. Ruth keeps on harping on about.

So, assuming that something similar may be going on with you, one possible way to get that Wow! sensation may be to aim for the ever-elusive g-spot. A stiff (acrylic/pyrex/glass instead of latex or silicone), curved toy specifically designed for that purpose would be good for solo play, while partnered play may require nothing but two crooked fingers and a bit of lube.

On the other hand, maybe your clitoris works just fine, but somehow doesn't get the right kind or amount of stimulation, in which case a vibrator may be just the thing to try.

*shrug* Clearly, some experimentation is in order...