So...HE LOVES ME!
Last week I posted a thread asking for advice about my 'boyfriend' and my admitting to him I was bipolar. Well, we finally discussed it. Well, I started poking at it because I can't help but poke at stuff. Essentially, the problem was that I never game him a chance. I was so sure that he's reject me that I never gave him a chance to tell me how he felt about it. Yeah, I'm an idiot.
We talked and told me that I offer him way too much for him to let me go over something as small as that. If I'm being bitchy, he'll give me chocolate. If I'm laughing, he'll laugh with me. The only reason he didn't speak to me is because he thought I was upset. I made it into a big deal because...again I'm an idiot. I panicked for no reason.
I have reason to believe that he's the best boyfriend ever. EVAR! And I'm so blessed to have him in my life.
Tigger
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 2:07pm
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Woo!
This is fantastic news! I'm so glad you two talked it over - one way or the other it had to be done, but I like it better when it's a happy ending.
Communication is HUGE - I firmly believe it's why my husband and I have been together for 7 years, through as much crap as we have.
I understand the need to poke at things - mom always used to tell me I was like a terrier with a bone. If something was wrong, I thought something was wrong, or I just had a thought...I worried at it and it always ended up being bigger than it was originally. I use past tense, but not much has changed - I just have a husband now who understands me! Sounds like your guy is much the same way! WOO!!
Pikachu42
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 5:06pm
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I keep telling myself....
that I'm not gonna poke. The longest I've made it was 4 hours, and then I was on the phone calling, or in the car driving, or something to try to fix it. I don't even know why I bother saying I won't, I know I will.
Raigne
Tue, 01/19/2010 - 6:46am
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That...
Is a bipolar thing, I think. At least, I notice it with my mother. She can't just leave things be, even though she knows that's a dangerous thing to do with my stepfather, especially when he's drunk.
Someone
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 2:29pm
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Awesome!
Of course, it's not that you panicked because you're stupid. People panic. It's part of what makes us human.
Of course, I doubt that you have the best boyfriend ever, because that's me
Congrats on happitude!
Pikachu42
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 5:12pm
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I know...
I just have to work on not ducking and running. That's not helpful to anyone in the long run, but I'm gonna try my hardest to rein it in.
Gudy
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 2:45pm
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This is...
... good news, indeed.
MeiLin
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 3:23pm
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You're not stupid for panicking
I was worried when I told Sir I had chronic depression, and then years later when I was re-evaluated and found bipolar II I was STILL worried about telling him. And we'd been married nearly 15 years at that point. It's a sensitive subject.
Pikachu42
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 5:10pm
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It's extremely sensitive...
for me because I've had so many negative reactions come from it. I'm stupid because he's never given me a reason to doubt that he loves me, but my reactions clearly say I don't trust him. I'm working on it, and we'll get through it together....cuz he loves me.
Capriox
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 3:53pm
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Good!!
Good!!
Clare-Dragonfly
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 4:20pm
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Yay!
I'm so happy for you! I was so excited to see this post in my RSS feed that even though it was last, I read it first, before the other weblit stories XD
Pikachu42
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 5:11pm
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Thank You!
It's a huge weight off my shoulders. I can't wait to move now!
Andrea
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 5:52pm
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Yay!!! I'm so glad everything
Yay!!! I'm so glad everything worked out (or didn't need to be worked out, I guess).
Mith
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 8:11pm
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:]
:]
TheBoy
Mon, 01/18/2010 - 8:40pm
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Yay
that is all.
Zandu Ink
Tue, 01/19/2010 - 6:31am
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Excellent!
Awesome and groovy, too!
JeVoudraisCake
Tue, 01/19/2010 - 6:44am
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Good for you both
Good for you both! I wish you the best.
I'm also inclined to poke and worry and get involved. Rather than trying to resist the urge, try telling yourself that you're being crafty, and waiting for now is all part of the Plan. Works for me.
Pikachu42
Tue, 01/19/2010 - 11:59am
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LOL I Like That....
and I'm stealing it. I will no longer poke, but craftily wait and then seek answers.
Stormy
Tue, 01/19/2010 - 11:05am
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woo!
Wittyscreenname
Tue, 01/19/2010 - 1:25pm
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Hooray for good news!
Hooray for good news!
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